I decided to write this post based on all the women that wonder why men treat good girls like shit. And I’m going to share with you some of the most common reasons why we men treat good girls like shit at times.
1. Image –We know that “the good girl” image is just something that we were raised to believe as true, most (if not all) women have other agendas other than “love”. This is especially true in America.
Now I know there is a lot of genuinely good women out there, but the test of a true “player” is to determine if you are in-fact dealing with a genuinely good girl or a women putting up a front trying to put her best foot forward.
we know that if a women puts too much on “how good she is” she may just be testing out the dude she is with to see how much of a “simp” he is. This may cause us to treat you like shit because it’s a way of putting pressure on you to show your “true colors”.
It’s a fact – %99.9 of us men must hit a point where we have “ran through some rats” gone through our “player stage”. And only then will we be faithful to the women we decide to marry or at least be in a serious relationship with.
There are a lot of examples to this speculation,
1. Tiger Woods. Proving that you can have a smoking-hot wife, and still have a wandering eye, Tiger Woods cheated on his beautiful Swedish wife, Elin Nordegren, with many different women. Claiming to suffer from a sexual addiction, Tiger and Elin stayed together when the scandal became public in an effort to “work things out”.
2. Jesse James. Jesse James was also caught in a sex scandal himself. While seemingly happily married to America's sweetheart, Sandra Bullock, Jesse James was sneaking around with tattooed stripper Michellee McGeee.
3. Hugh Grant. . While in a relationship with supermodel Elizabeth Hurley, Hugh Grant had a not-so-secret encounter with a prostitute. His indiscretion was even immortalized by a police mug shot.
4. Charlie Sheen. Although married to one of the most beautiful women in the world, Denise Richards, Charlie Sheen allegedly cheated on her with his assistant. Denise Richards claims to have caught the two red handed in a hotel room, but Sheen denies those allegations.
5. Ethan Hawke. Ethan Hawke not only cheated on his wife, Uma Thurman, with the family nanny, but he then married the woman! The two went on to have a child of their own.
6.Jude Law. Back in 2005, Jude Law and Sienna Miller appeared to be a happy couple. Then, he was caught having an affair with the family nanny. The celebrity couple broke up but was spotted together here and there 5 years after the fact. Is it possible that some men can get away with cheating? It would appear so in this case.
7.Sean Penn. Sean Penn had a very public affair with actress Natalie Portman, right after he and wife Robin Wright separated. The relationship was formed so quickly, it left many wondering if it had been going on during the marriage. Robin Wright and Sean Penn eventually divorced.
8.Jon Gosselin. Suddenly famous for being the father of eight children, John Gosselin couldn't handle the spotlight. He allegedly had several affairs while married to Kate Gosselin. The couple soon broke up, as did their reality television show that made them both overnight stars.
9.Bill Clinton. Bill Clinton is one of the most powerful men that cheated on their wives. When he had an affair with intern, Monica Lewkinsky, she became famous! Now that's impressive. His wife, Hilary Clinton, not only forgave him for his indiscretion, but the two remain married over ten years later. And then list goes on….
for one reason or the other “the playa” was still not out of them. And if a man does not thoroughly get that “itch” out of him this will cause him to treat a good girl he may be dealing with like shit.
Tappin into the freak within -
Now this is going to be a controversial one-some men may say if you have a good girl then she can’t be a freak because that totally defeats the purpose of her being a good girl, True in most cases however In my opinion you can have a indisputably good girl and get her to tap into her “freak within” if you have enough “mack bones” in your body.
You see a lot of dudes are unable to get a good girl to tap into her “freak within” thus causing them to them like shit ,and at times even cheat on the woman they are with .Some men just lose their patience which can cause them to treat the women they are with like shit instead of “upgrading” the female they are with to get her to tap into her “freak within”.
Lack of Balls –
Some men plain and simply just lack the balls to tell you that you are a legitimately good girl that one could do with but we are just not ready for a good girl at this time in our life, at the risk of losing you –because we know it’s something that we may need in the near future.
Some men just lack the balls to tell you “You’re great but I just want to do me right now”.” I still want to play the field”
You see men realize that you are an accurately down to earth girl that we would love to be in the near feature but some men just don’t have to the balls to be honest and upfront about the women they deal with.
Thinking Egotistically –
Honestly some of us men take an affectionate girl for granted at times especially when we know she is all into us. And were not ready for that- at that point in our lives.This same concept applies the other way around,when a guy is "all into a woman" and she is not ready for that at that point in her life, in reality it's because we know you will be there for us .We usually think “ I got her” “She will always be there for me because she loves me “. "This bitch is sprung off me "
“She is not going anywhere I got her for sure and I can do as I please”.